Comments on: I love my political views and so should you! http://whatannoys.me/2009/i-love-my-political-views-and-so-should-you/ you're thinking it...we're just saying it Mon, 31 May 2010 23:21:01 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: RedRocker http://whatannoys.me/2009/i-love-my-political-views-and-so-should-you/comment-page-1/#comment-43 RedRocker Sun, 15 Mar 2009 17:58:34 +0000 http://whatannoys.me/?p=244#comment-43 So here's the real point: Every conversation has a winner and a loser. They've never lost a debate in their own mind. The only solution - unless you want to spar just for kicks and don't leave pissed off - is to let them stew on their own. The ONLY way to "win" is not to justify their waste of hot air by getting into the debate to begin with. Deep down this is just another flavor of bully who is only happy when they're making someone else unhappy. Turn the tables and tune them out. It jan be fun to turn two polar opposites against each other though just to watch the fireworks though. And the answer is yes - I get to spend time with them at family get togethers. So here’s the real point:
Every conversation has a winner and a loser.
They’ve never lost a debate in their own mind.

The only solution – unless you want to spar just for kicks and don’t leave pissed off – is to let them stew on their own. The ONLY way to “win” is not to justify their waste of hot air by getting into the debate to begin with.
Deep down this is just another flavor of bully who is only happy when they’re making someone else unhappy. Turn the tables and tune them out.
It jan be fun to turn two polar opposites against each other though just to watch the fireworks though.

And the answer is yes – I get to spend time with them at family get togethers.

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